Yep, we all have different ways we enjoy camping and likewise different priorities on how we implement solutions to issues based on our expertise and/or previous experiences. It is unlikely there will ever be a one size fits all. As long as you can make him aware of the possible solutions, each with their pros and cons, he will be in a much better position to make an informed decision and to understand how to manage the solution he prefers.Thanks Mike @mikerezny for your comments. I will answer/comment on each point you raised:
He has NO solar on roof top or any other solar panel/s. In fact, van is not set up for any solar!!
Yes, while he may be driving a fair bit during the day, his Playdoh (2008 model common rail) has one of those "smart" alternators which would certainly not get his 120ah AGM up to full storage capacity. Refer one of my earlier posts regarding this. In fact, he has remarked that the alternator will not (or takes a very long time?!) to bring tug battery from low to full charge potential. He puts tug battery on a smart charger sometimes and it takes overnight to get to "float" position! I doubt that there would be 13.8 volts at the van battery terminals anyway, which is NOT enough to charge van battery , even if tug battery has been charged sufficiently and before it switches to "free running". Might get him to put smart charger onto van battery when at home and more often??
As far as temperature in fridge is concerned, his fridge was the one I posted a story about some time ago regarding removal, clean, block holes, and other various repairs/baffle fitting etc. Although he now admits more efficient, I do not think he is aware of temp situation too much.
He is on his third van battery in 10 years, so your calculations are pretty close to the mark. Not helped by van sitting for up to 3 months at a time and no battery charging occurring regularly.
His fridge has no thermostatic control when on 12 volts, only on 240 volts AC.
I doubt he is likely to spend money on a solar set up as he is pretty ignorant of solar charging, but I will mention it to him. He frowns at wife and I going "off grid" - never free camps!. The idea of an extra battery in parallel would seem to be an easy fix, but once again he has his own ideas, so I might just listen and let him run with it!! However, he may want me to assist/do? the change over to what he wants after he gets a quote from a "sparkie" to do the job.
Sigh!! Some people do not want to change and to each his own...... until help is needed! Thanks
In the end, he has to be comfortable with any solution he adapts.
Off topic, but I have one great neighbour (retired fitter and turner) and another who is a good friend (electronics engineer), both with batteries in vehicles that got little or no use. Short of beating them around the head with a battery charger I could get neither to keep the batteries topped up so they would be able to start the car when needed. Wind the clock forward, and both have stuffed batteries. I even offered to take the batteries out, bring them home and keep them topped up every couple of months. Neither could be bothered. In one case, two 150Ah Calcium batteries (2 year old mandatory replacements from a fork-lift) just sat in the corner for two years until they were dead. The battery charger he owned was less than 2m from the batteries!
cheers
Mike